Why Do Men Choose The Mean Girls Over Nice Girls?

Ever wonder why men always seem to like the bitchy females over the nice readily easy going girls ? Well for the same reason really that women tend to also choose ‘bad boys’ over ‘nice guys’ for one main reason, they love the challenge and mystery !

Whoever said that ‘nice guys finish last’ was for the most part right. If I had a penny for each and every time a woman told me that the reason she rejected a certain man was because well … ”he was just ‘too nice’,” I’d have a couple of million dollars by now!

Think about most of the things you have acheived and even owned in life, the truth is, you tend to value the things that were hard to get more than the things that were just given to you without you having to work hard to attain those things.

Bitchier girls always seem to be in control and out of reach, acting this way is what usually molds them into the challenge that most guys tend to love; hence the man starts the mental chase.  As you know men are creatures of competition and when they sense that they may be competing against other men for your attention and favor, your stock goes up since  this encourages a man to face the challenge and try to win a piece of your hard earned attention .

When women act ‘bitchy’, it usually lets a man know that they aren’t necessarily easy to please, this in turn usually makes the man want to work harder to try and earn the approval of the so called ‘bitchy’ woman in question, whereas with a ‘nice girl’, men usually have earned the attention from the start as they don’t have to work as hard to get it.

I do not by any means imply that ‘nice girls’ are necessarily easy to please, but the mystery is decreased from the start if you grant a man a laugh to every one of their jokes and act impressed by every little thing he does. Acting extra nice will also just remind him of a sister or a mother figure, not exactly the sex appeal you were looking for!

Laughing at every joke a man makes and complements that come too often are not the working behaviors of the ‘bitchy’ woman, rather those of the ‘nice girl’. The ‘bitchy’ girl is more appealing since the man always knows that  the laughs to any of his jokes or any complements and acts of kindness aren’t easily earned, making them that much more meaningful.

Remember the way to a man’s heart and affection is not by being his doormat, rather holding your own and being confident in your own actions. You can be nice, just don’t be too nice that you lose the mystery and even end up being a doormat.  No man ever respected a doormat, this is why men will always prefer ‘bitchy’ women over ‘nice girls’.

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