Starting out in Online Dating

For a while online dating had a certain level of stigma attached to it but it has become progressively more accepted as a way to find potential love interests. In fact, it has not merely become acceptable but is actually very normal now. But how do you get started in this somewhat daunting field of dating?

Well, it really is simple. There are dozens of dating websites out there from general, everybody can join to Christians only and even ones targeted at specific ethnic groups, so start with researching what is out there that would suit you. Once you have a site that you like then comes the hard part, filling in the profile.

I cannot stress enough the importance of being as honest as you can be. Yes, sure, people lie on their profiles all the time but if you are looking for something meaningful it is up to you to be up front about the real you.

Once you have set up your profile you will likely start to get responses. The biggest advice I can give here is to respond. Even if the person may not seem like a perfect fit at least respond and exchange a few messages. Although obviously if the person really does seem not quite right you can certainly pass. I just suggest that you explore as many possibilities as you can because it would be a shame to miss out on the right person because they seem to have completely different interests.

Finally, some dating websites organize mass get togethers in a safe environment where you can meet new people in person. These are a great idea and as long as the website is reputable they will generally be well run and safe so take a chance and be active. These events can be great places to meet up safely with other users you click with online.


  1. Oh my God.. this is soo good..

  2. Love to hear more

  3. See this in real life every day

  4. Candice M says:

    I agree with most of this

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